With spending more time with Alan and working with the AAC research group at Dundee University has made me more aware of how society cowers away from 'different people' like the AAC users I work with. Disabled people are not a different species, just a different brand of people. Speaking to them is really no different to talking to your friend or colleague - there really is no art to it!
For those of you who really don't believe me, here's some easy steps to follow that may help you realise just how similar it is.
- Step 1: If someone is with them, watch how they talk to the individual as it gives you an indication of understanding and langage level. If they speak in simple language terms, follow step and do the same and so on.
- Step 2: If the person is using a device, be patient and give them time to talk. Talking too soon creates a monologue with yourself and you're excluding them from the conversation. Trust me, most individuals love to talk!
- Step 3: Didn't hear or understand them the first time? No problem, most individuals don't mind repeating what they've said as they'd rather be included and repeat themselves than be excluded.
- Step 4: Remember that having a disability can be frustrating and that most individuals want to be able to talk to you as anyone is society does so just relax and enjoy a quick (or long!) chat with them. You may even be surprised to find out that you have something in common!
It really is as simple as that. Go on, try it, even if you are just doing it to prove me wrong. You may be pleasantly surprised.