About three weeks ago I started caring for a forty-year old male who has Cerebral Palsy (CB). Now, there are various levels of CB and he has a medium level in terms of communication, movement and dexterity. Alan, my client, can communicate using a board known as a Bliss Board, which has some common words on it. This makes communication slow, but not impossible. He can walk with the support of someone’s arm or his walker, although patience is required in his speed. Alan is able to use a computer, but again, it is just a slower process. Basically he is able to most of what you and I can do, just at a slower pace.
What I have noticed is his determination in life and his unstoppable quench for new things. Despite his limited mobility, Alan leads a very active life. He has partaken in several Paralympics across the world for his swimming and done rather well, he gives speeches about overcoming challenges within one’s life and keeps busy with all sorts of social activities.
Working with him has taught me that you can succeed if you refuse to let yourself sink into self pity and accept the obscure box that society tries to fit you in. With work and determination, you and succeed.
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